Order the tea and sit for hours. Let it get cold because the company you’re with is far better than any drink that can be ordered.

Love big in small moments. Love in all moments. 

If it’s a maybe, a soft no, a hell no or anything but an astounding YES, it’s a no. 
It’s not black or white. There is a whole rainbow of color between…

Be generous & be kind.

Boundaries-build that white little picket fence and let it be the boundaries that make life easier. 

Acknowledge and embrace people for existing. March 16th, 2023 I experienced the love of Southern Moroccans. These magical beings loved my dad and I just for existing. Communication was limited and I have never felt so much love for just existing. Love doesn’t require the same language. 

Two people experiencing the EXACT same thing, feel completely different about it. Communicate. In one brush of the hand I felt my world make sense, I broke the code, I got the sign. For me it was the beginning of everything and for them it was the end of all of it. Perspective-get with it. 

No decision-is a decision 

Hug more. Let people know they undeniably matter, and hold that hug until they end it. 

Cheek kisses are not the easiest greeting in the world, but one of my favs. 😘 landed myself in 2 face kisses with a great laugh after. 

No one will be harder on me than I am on myself, lighten up. 👍

Time is the most valuable thing on Earth. That & land. ⏰🏔️

Show people the magic of life. Butterflies, flowers growing in cement cracks, sunsets, moonrises. 🦋

“Let them” theory. Look it up. 🫶🏼

Live in your magic and show people theirs. 

Until 2024,

illies